Gosh... I'm really not being a very good blogger.
There are so many small stories to share, so many tiny tales to tell, but I've been quite inefficient in managing my time, so I haven't alloted much time to spend on my blog.
I think every February and March, I'm going to have to get used to feeling a bit melancholy at the departure of close friends, and the concept of going through the search of new ones. It's not so much that I've lost those close friends, but distance does create a lot of boundaries that waters down the friendship. It's not less real, nor valuable, but definitely less tangible.
For being such a social person, it is an exercise for me to find new friends. I have to be up for it, ready to take risks with people, aware that I may be disappointed. Keeping people at arms length is just easier for me. I can see their goodness without having to deal with their negatives, particularly if their negatives hurt others.
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| My doggie, just because I miss her lots as well. :) |
In any case, I wrote half of a blog entry on snowboarding, but didn't finish it, just as I have half of one on my trip to Busan. This time, I'm just going to list things I've done since December.
I got to see Jessica more than once, which was nice. Included in our little gettogethers was Chi, Robin, and Matt. I didn't really get to see more of that crew, which was unfortunate, but we were all pretty busy. We had crepes, went window shopping, drank/ate hot chocolate, and went to the Choo Choo train restaurant, as per tradition. :)
After blizzard induced light delays, I got to see Kelly and her sister in Denton, Texas. Mostly, Kelly and I just chatted and caught up years of information, but the friendship, as usual, was familiar and steady, as it had been the last time we saw each other.
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| Snow falling in NYC. |
Jennie traveled from Boston to meet me in NYC for lunch. We went to Ripley's Believe It or Not Museum, which was actually quite fun. We were drawn in by the guy who hammered a nail into his own nose.
Then I went home and celebrated my dad's birthday with most of my family. We traveled a bit to go to a Korean restaurant, which amused me, as the food they served there was pretty much just a half a block or block away from most places in Seoul.
I stayed over Laura's apartment the night before my flight to Seoul, in NYC. I was a bit worried that there would be weather problems again, as there were unpredictable snowstorms throughout my stay in the USA.
Finally, I arrived in Seoul. :)
Then thing was... when I stopped to use the restroom before I left the terminal, I think I also left my phone. So the next day, I got an e-mail from Jisun, a very sweet friend of mine, that the airport had called her. So, I had to travel back out to the airport to retrieve my phone. Unfortunately, it was still in the arrival terminal, so I had to wait for someone to bring it out, since getting into the arrivals is a bit difficult.
But that's not all. Jisun, the friend who told me about my phone, got married and moved out to the suburbs of Seoul. I miss her lots. She used to live right in my neighborhood, so now I'm without her company.
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| A bunch of princesses are we. |
I went out for a girlie day with a bunch of vivacious ladies. We had brunch at Suji's in Itaewon, then went to go take pictures of ourselves in princessy outfits for the afternoon. It was a nice way to see everyone at once before people left. Whenever I've gone to the Princess Cafe, I've noticed that people are at first taking very pretty pictures, getting used to the nice lighting in the cafe, and then after a little while, start getting rather silly, using the extra props or making more creative scenarios for the photos. It was a fun day with good company.
In terms of seeing people off at the airport, I did feel like I was in Incheon airport quite a few times this winter. Not only was I there to see people off in December, and there myself about three times, I saw two other people off at the airport as well. First Jenny, who is such a patient and understanding listener, flew out to go back to Canada. And soon after, vivacious Crystal also flew out back to the USA.
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| An art installation at the Incheon Airport end of the express train line. |
Both times, I was with Janet, Miss Organization herself. Because of Janet, I discovered the newly extended airport express train that runs from Seoul station to Gimpo airport to Incheon airport. They are currently constructing a stop for that line quite close to my apartment. =D Very awesome.
After that, I began my new year at my university. My students are mostly rather bright and chipper. There were eight new hires this term, so the department feels quite large in comparison to when I first arrived. There are more women, as well, which is nice.
I went to see Jisun's new place one weekend. It's a bit of a way out of Seoul, but not so far that I couldn't see her here and there. The town still feels much like a city, though pales in comparison to Seoul itself. My biggest complaint would be the hills. I would detest walking up and down those hills after a hard day's work... or in heels. Hopefully, I'll be visiting Jisun again and often.
I visited Ami, a very warm hearted friend, in Anyang with Janet and Shannon, and went out for the night. Then the next weekend, we went to Jindo, which is an Island close to Mokpo, toward the southern end of Korea. Every year, during this time of year, when the tides are low, a pathway opens up in the sea between Jindo and other nearby island. Janet, Ami, HeeJeong, and I walked across it, but only about two-thirds of the way, because we got a bit tired. It was a really refreshing and surreal experience. There were starfish, crabs, seaweed, sea urchins, and other such sea-creatures, just laying across the path. (I did throw a lot of them into the water because I didn't want people stepping on them).
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| I stole this from Janet, who is not only organized, but an awesome photographer. |
Today is one of those rare quiet days. I'm savoring my alone time again. I've decided not to leave my apartment till tomorrow. :) Until then, I have lots of housecleaning, picture uploading, and video/computer game playing to get to.
Oh... and it snowed last night. It's the end of March! Sheesh.
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| Just a random altered Van Gogh painting a la Korea. |